A REFLECTION COMPANION
Before the
conversation.
Six prompts to help you consider how you want to show up. Choose one conversation and write a few honest lines.
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What do I know happened, and how do I want to conduct myself when we discuss it?
What am I assuming about the other person, and what could I ask instead?
What boundary or condition would help this conversation remain respectful and useful?
What is the one thing I need to say, clearly and without adding blame?
What do I want to understand better—and how will I make room to hear it?
After I have done my part, what action still belongs to me, and what response belongs to the other person?
An original reflection companion inspired by the six decisions in The Third Chair by Dragan Andric. These prompts are not excerpts from the book.
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